H's MLC - finding compassion and forgiveness

[courageous wife]

Now – a gentle reminder about detachment. I understand why you are hurt he included OW with D at Christmas. However, to his mixed up mind he’s done the right thing. He’s had a Xmas with you and D and then a meal with OW and D. He thinks he’s getting it right. Giving a bit of himself to the “family” and a bit of himself to the new “relationship” and including his D in both parts of his life. That makes perfect sense to him. His cards to you and D at Christmas indicate he thinks he’s on the right track. He’s sorry for what he’s done to you, but isn’t it great that it’s all over now and we can all get on. He’s VERY detached. You need to take a does of that detachment too girlfriend. Please don’t let his decisions affect you.

This makes so much sense!!!