Are you being solution oriented in your decision to decline the invite? If so that's fine.
What are your goals? Long term? Short term?
Will declining the invite get you closer or further away from a particulare goal.
Gotta think about these things. Set aside all emotions before responding to your STBXH.
God Bless Pickle
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
