Got the post holiday blues today. Christmas day was "okay" I guess. We took the kids to the movies, but now it's back to.... We live in the same house but exchange very few words. When I come home she leaves and when she's there I'll go. Been trying to LRT under the same roof but it's awkward. Kids are probably wondering what the hell is going on. Been forever since she slept in our bed. Don't know what else to do but wait - for what? Any ideas what to expect - another bomb perhaps? Yesterday she came home from the game to an empty house. S11 and I were at friends house and D17 was out w/BF. Friend and I came home to grab some firewood and she's there. Looked like she just woke from a nap or something. She said hello very subdued, she looked sad. Later when S11 and I finally came home for good, I asked if she heard from D17 and when she's coming home. She snapped, "It's only 9:15!" back to being pissy.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
