Well, it's been a month so here is an update.

KerryK and I met over Thanksgiving and took our kids to Victoria and braved a holiday together. That's GAL with DB friends!

The night before we left I had a meet and greet with the guy above. We can call him FedExGuy.

We have been out together almost every week since then. I am not dating him exclusively... but I have only had one meet and greet since then. I have learned I am not a pursuer in the online dating world. FEG has been a very nice man to get to know. I am keeping the relationship at arms lenght and taking things very very slowly. He understands my need to do this.

His kids are all out of the house and he is a grandfather at 45! So, no kid element there. I did meet his daughter but she is 25. He bought me a nice Christmas gift and I had bought him one too. We bought each other the same cologne/perfume from the same designer... Dolce and Gabana! So, that was funny.

The EXh did not call his children even on Christmas.... he is a donkey.

I am Spending New Year;s eve with friends at a party with my kiddos and I have invited FEG... i always spend new years' eve with my kids. Excited for 2011!!!!


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too