Yes Sandi, I agree and I stopped the pressure and stopped the ILY's.. and just did my thing.. Let her contact me or not.. and I dont get angry when she doesnt.. her decision.

my update last was the 12th and much has changed. I am not resentful when she doesnt return the affection.. I continue to be me..

M:42
W:39
S:9
M:20
T:25
D-bomb: 30 Sep 10
Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10
Working on it: 31 Oct 10