Well have not updated since the 12th. Had Marriage Counseling together on the 17th. It was semi productive. We agreed that what I was doing was what she needed (not transferring need and pressure) and I was basically continuing to GAL. We had a great weekend and I returned to Mississippi.
Came home this week and wife was sick for the next MC session so I went alone. Wife wanted to knwo what we discussed etc.. said she would also go alone to discuss things with the MC. Enjoyed a quite Christmas.
Today Wife sends me a txt saying we "made huge strides" this week and thanking me for a wonderful Christmas. She also ML to me last night waking me at 3 am... So I am continuing with what works.

I am reading on my own (5 LL now)
I am goign to counseling
I am not asking her for comittment
I am helping around the house
I am being kind and cheerful
I am demonstrating my patience
I am becoming less stressed
I am seeing myself from when we first got married.

I am hopeful

M:42
W:39
S:9
M:20
T:25
D-bomb: 30 Sep 10
Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10
Working on it: 31 Oct 10