TAMF ... I am sooooo happy for you and your girls ... and I agree with Snodderly in that keeping your expectations as low as possible would be good for you.

My advice would be to remember to continue to DO WHAT WORKS! It is very easy to fall into old patterns and habits because they are comfortable ... continue to live DB philosophy because it is an emotionally healthy way to live.

(((hugs)))
Merry Christmas!
PEI


Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc