Please take sandi's advice. She just described me to the letter. I asked wife that question, and got the response sandi said I would. That was after 2 months of DBing. I had to start all over in a bigger hole than I started with.

I wish I would of seen her above post about 2 months ago.

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair