Oh Cas ((()))) hes worse than a girlie with full blown menopausal symptoms isnt he?

Its hard but yet again its step away and let him get on with it.. I have just been reading a fab article about avoiders and clingers... Your H is a definite avoider, as soon as you cling even the slightest you cant see him for dust and hes chucking toys out of his pram again.. hes still not ready to face up to working with you, but he really is a silly ar*e isnt he, I want my D papers, NO I dont want my D papers.. HOW old is he?

Hang in there, only you can decide you are done hun! That is totally your perogative..

Sanderika what wonderful news.. but please please go SLOWLY this is not the time to scare him... infact are you on the alt anywhere I'd love you to read the above article, its very enlightening.. it puts a lot of DB into different words but in principle is the same but I just got it better that way..

Take care of yourselves ladies, YOU are too important to lose in all this...

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!