You may have stated it before but do not recall seeing it. Is it that she does not want you to touch her or are you uncomfortable having physical contact with her?
If helping her out of a car or holding her arm are big steps then I whole heartedly agree that sex is a fair bit in the future.
Maybe you could elaborate some more on this.
If you dance together, you must have physical contact in some capacity. While some of the other contact you list has different associations, would it really be that much to reach out and hold her hand for a moment and smile at her when something is going right? Seems like a reasonable next step. I am tempted to say you need to be a bit daring and forward. You need to lead, as they sometimes say around here. She seems to want to see a little fire coming from you. Would a New Years kiss be too cliche?
That said, I don't know the whole of your situation as it relates to physical intimacy, so can't offer any truly reasoned advice. Good luck.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
