Keep your head up! Hope this week treats you very well. The only thing I want to tell you is to not beat yourself up for being the way that you are. You are empathetic, you are compassionate and you are not comfortable being mean, angry, crazy, etc. I have felt at times that I am too empathetic, especially in the face of my H's infidelity, but I have to say, two years after the fact, I don't regret that I was empathetic and understanding rather than mean, mad or crazy. Every person has a different way of reacting or handling themselves in the face of this kind of thing.
I was true to myself - and that is the best way to operate.
Me: 33, H: 32 M: 12 years T: 13 years No kids D-Day: 7/2009 Separated: 10/12/10 Future Unknown GITS
"There's a fire starting in my heart, reaching a fever pitch and it's bringing me out the dark." - Adele
