I'm thinking I need to step it up in the physical contact area. There isn't any sexual spark at this time, so probably shouldn't venture there. I'm looking for opportunity to have physical contact such as helping her out of a car, or holding a door, helping her with dance shoes, or holding her arm when walking down a city block. I need to be more thoughtful in this way. I think this is the next step. It's easy to get comfortable staying in the same patterns.
I'm not sure what to do about New Year's Eve. There are ballroom dance opportunities, but my guess is that she wouldn't have a good time, unless we went somewhere where she knew a lot of people. I'll send her an email, and see where she's at with this.
I have to make sure I keep a balance of self-care and relationship time.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
