Mila, I'm sorry the ow was present during the evening. The mlcer sees absolutely nothing wrong w/having the OP present during family times. It's all about them and what makes them feel good...no thought to what others may think.
I'm sure that your daughter will enlighten him if it upset her.
As for you, I am glad you had a pleasant evening and let's hope things settle down for a bit. Enjoy your day!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.