Goodness, I'm lucky I found my thread, it's 6 months since I last posted here. This thread contains a lot of information on the Retrouvaille program, and who knows what else! I have the thread in Piecing, but Retrouvaille is a turning point. It is the time and place where you stop tearing your marriage apart and start putting it back together. It comes before Piecing. So don't be afraid to think about going to Retrouvaille if you are not piecing yet. Perhaps I put the thread in the wrong place. I can say for sure that when we went to Retrouvaille, we were not piecing. We were lost and didn't know which way to turn. Retrouvaille was the life preserver floating on the ocean that pulled us in to shore.