One thing I forgot to mention is during our conversation today W said she looked at the Retrouvaille site. She said that it didn't sound like something she wanted to do. W said that she was thinking more along the lines of going to a MC. I said that they didn't have to be mutually exclusive.

I told her that I wasn't sure if I was open to not doing it. I said I didn't need an answer right now but that I really wanted her to think about it because it was important to me given what I have heard on these boards about Retrouvaille.

Am I being stupid to push the issue of Retrouvaille or should I stick to what is comfortable for my W?

M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10