I agree. You aren't ready to date. Get your emotions in check and learn to be alone again...completely alone. You're attracting what you are, not what you want.
Enjoy this time to feel every emotion so you can heal and get back to a place where you can have a healthy relationship with someone who is also emotionally healthy.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10