I believe you are doing the right thing by not subscribing to A's and MLC's given you are so-called "married". The A and the MLC are to me very misdirected actions, which are understandable but I don't understand why in the eyes of society and law this sort of immature and destructive behavior is so excusable and not subject to corrective action or penalty; you will realize this if and when it comes to D. That's why I say to you get familiar with the legal side or you may be in for big surprises.
