What happens to the WAS after D?

[AtTheEnd?]

gabbysmom23,

You are correct. Not moving the D along only prolongs the inevitable. Might as well get it done and on with life. I believe that I have hit the point where it's time to move on. I gave it my best shot, and did everything possible to save the M. There is only so much someone can do. The problem resides with the WAS. I could be the perfect man, and it wouldn't be enough. She needs to do the hardest thing imaginable, and that is to look at herself. The problem with that is that she won't do that until she realizes once she has gone, had a couple of other relationships and still isn't happy. This is where the LBS is long gone. The WAS wants to come back, but it's too late. Such is life.