Yes he did actually. I asked him once a couple of months ago what he disliked about me and it was that I had to be in control of everything. I think even that though wouldn't have bothered him as much if I hadn't been so rejecting for so long. So I am working on both. He did say last night that would could start working on things and that I could start coming over after the kids are in bed so we can spend some time alone.