Hi Zengypsy, Yes, I read DR. I wish I read it when we first seperated. I would have saved all the pleading, pursuing,talking about the good times, sending pictures of the dog and us together, all the I love you's, etc etc etc.
I didn't know any better. All I knew was that my heart was broken (still is) and the hurt was more than I could deal with. It has gotten a little easier since I read DR and applied the strategies. Not much though.
Yes, the Holidays make it so much worse. Thank-You zen for the support. And yes, I read alot of things on the boards that is a reflection of how I feel and where I am at.
