SA, You handled the situation beautifully. Yes, they always play victim and never want to look in the mirror and deep within. It's easier to cry "poor me". I'm glad you got him a little something to show him that you did acknowledge the fact that he paid the utilities. Christmas is about giving from the heart and you did just that w/no expectations.
I'm very glad everything turned out okay for you and your family. Enjoy the rest of the holiday season w/your family.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
