Kaboom

[sgctxok]

Because you still have hope, and he's giving your hope. He still wants you.

Part of your marriage was a lie, but the whole marriage wasn't a lie. It's wheat and chaff. You want to get rid of the bad, keep the good and build on the good. It just isn't that easy to do. It probably would be easier to end things.

Except you will have a hard time trusting anyone again. Dating and being out there all over again can be stressful or can be thrilling, but building new relationships from the ground up are hard work and they carry some of the same problems with them, plus new ones.

I think SD gave you wise advice, and I'm glad you took it.

I have a feeling you are going to make it through this with a stronger marriage.

Did you read Michele's article in the Huffington post?