girlfromipanema, thank-you very much for your input.
I don't think of you as a prude and I know swinging is a very controversial idea. I told one friend that after this, I would never actively recommend it to a couple and would warn any to make sure there are absolutely no issues in the R.
It makes sense about the emotions for a new guy rekindling her sex drive. I know my situation is not the same as yours sense we already shared ourselves with others, but girlfromipanema, I have an understanding of the pain you're going through and I'm very sorry.
