MLC, H & me...moving foward

[punkin]

CW,

First, I think you did very well, as Cas said. You were gracious under pressure. Remained calm and cooperative for the kids sake. You did what you had to do to keep peace on Christmas.

Second, the next time he pulls that crap, be prepared. He's found out he can do it, so buy a pit bull, so to speak. My H pulled that on me when I came home from surgery. A sneak attack. If he shows up at my door again, I'm going to tell him I am not a convenience store, and he can't just walk in at will. Make an appointment. Through my lawyer.

I know with kids, it makes things difficult, but still. It's your house, it's your kids, IT'S YOUR CHRISTMAS. His wishes are no longer at the top of your list.

Sorry I'm ranting, but that stuff p**s's be off. He just assured himself of your being alone and your plans left in limbo.