Thanks for your insight Snodderly and Sanderika. GAG you posed an interesting question about the job situation. I have to say now that I have no idea!

Some information;
I have heard nothing from H
H spent Christmas eve with OW and her family
S was with him Christmas night. D refused to go. H sent her a text wishing her a pleasant Christmas Day.
H has not deleted me from his skype
H tells S he is moving to our home state. Not sure about ow in this plan.
H has told me he is moving because of me. However, he has return flights booked from here for Feb and he has bought football season's tickets for him and D.
Today H text D and asked if she was going to the football this season (she already has the membership ticket he bought)