Showing up unannounced was rude and inconsiderate of you H....they don't seem to care about anybody's feelings or plans...whatever suit them at the moment...so you are right we have no choice but to learn to be more flexible, and don't sweat the small stuff...
Enjoy the rest of you Holidays
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO