DIL invited me to their house as she was making a turkey. I went and had a great time! I was a target for the boys (H gave them nerf guns...ages 6+ and they are 2.5 and 4) and SS, DIL and I played Monopoly...I won btw!!!
Yes, it was unbelievable, rude and self-centered. I wrestled with asking him to come back tomorrow but decided to let it go. The kids seemed to be ok with going. I think a little work is needed with communication however!!!
It did take me a little while to make the mental adjustment as you put it GAG. I have never been good with "spur of the moment" and changing of plans so I will chalk this up to learning to be more flexible, going with the flow etc.
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing