g450, You miss your "old wife" and your married life. The woman you married is gone and she will never return. If you decide to stay married it will be a totally new relationship with a different person.
I wanted to stay married because, I too, love being married. That said, being single ain't all that bad. I wanted the man I fell in love with 22 years ago and I saw clearly he was never going to return. So, I chose to file and I think that's okay. Why? Because I DESERVE a great life and ya know what? I'm living it. This was one of the best Christmases I've EVER had in my life. Go out and figure out what YOU want. Why does she get to make all the decisions?
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
