I have to address the bills and house and such with my W. I am hitting the road tomorrow for 2 more weeks and I have no idea what else she is going to remove from the house or do with our pets or with the finances. I have written out a text (and yes, I know text is ideal but I have no other way of communicating with W right now) and would like feedback on it. Is it too harsh, too soft, needs rewording, or whatever?
"I don’t have time to get into a deep discussion on this right now because I am heading back to work. I appreciate you leaving the copies of the credit cards in your name here but I do need to know where my copies are and possibly where some of the other important financial paperwork has gone such as what might have been in the fire safe and past tax info. I had the taxes and many other important documents saved on the computer where you wiped it clean, did you actually back any of it up? I have spent time going over bills as much as I can with the limited info I have and I am working on how to split it up. I will have it ready for the next time I come home and we will need to discuss the bills, the house, and the joint property that you removed from the house. I know I don’t have a right to all of the property that you removed but it was your choice to move out and it does not mean you get to furnish your new place as you see fit with things that belong to both of us. This also means that giving away Patty was completely inappropriate as well. I am working on a solution so that I can keep Frank and Buddy (and hopefully get Patty back) and also have more availability to visit Nena and Spike. You’re unilateral decisions regarding belongings, the pets, packing my stuff, and the finances is very disrespectful."
