Well Bob, personally I think that does look bad! but its hard to say for sure. maybe he is going through something that some men go through... does he have a low drive anyways like some men do? I have read stuff in the sexual issues forum that were surprising to me because I thought all men were pretty much like my H as far as a high drive. But I have read a lot about men who have a very very low drive or are sensitive and just cant seem to be with their wives while there is such turmoil in the relationship. Also you mentioned before he seems depressed... I think you mentioned that. anyhow one of the major symptoms of depression is low or no drive. your W and him could both be depressed. I know om in my situation was depressed and put on meds after we quit talking, just like I was. I am not saying it was because of me but there was a lot of stress in their marriage and many things going on in his life that caused depression just like in my case.
