Thank you for your insight, SDFoundGirl. Of course, you are completely correct. I am so glad you posted to me, because I could really use help today. It's been such an unpleasant, emotional, difficult day.
I feel terrible that I am lashing out at h. I've told him how I am putting myself in his shoes and thank him for his honesty and in the next breath I make him feel bad about telling me the truth. He told me he is here because he wants to be here to try to work on this together and then I tell him he needs to leave if he hasn't made a definite call... I haven't been fair to him today and I will apologize to him.
I need to get caught up with you. I remember you from way back in early 2008 and I hope things are still going well for you.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence