I found this online and thought it pretty much summed up my H-

"I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You."

If you hear these words, a big warning bell should go off. This is one of the most consistent things a cheating spouse will say. Your spouse may have a deep, loving bond with you but, intense feelings of passion can override the bond with you and cause your spouse to lose sight of his/her true feelings. The cheating spouse will develop what I call hormone - induced amnesia. The surging hormones and passion they feel in their new relationship can cause some very skewed thinking.


I just hope when the "hormone induced amnesia" comes to an end he realizes what he gave up and lost. In the meantime, I am focusing on me and moving on with my life so that hopefully if/when the day does ever come that he realizes he made a mistake both my head and heart will not want anything to do with him.

I reserved my moving truck today and will be moving out of our home on Tuesday.


M-34, H-37, No Kids
Married 4yr, Together 6yr
Discovered EA 7/24/10
Separated 8/6/10
Filed 8/16/10
H Moved home and Piecing 9/20/10
H returns to OW 12/10
EA was really PA
I file 12/29/10
I move out 12/30/10