I found this online and thought it pretty much summed up my H-
"I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You."
If you hear these words, a big warning bell should go off. This is one of the most consistent things a cheating spouse will say. Your spouse may have a deep, loving bond with you but, intense feelings of passion can override the bond with you and cause your spouse to lose sight of his/her true feelings. The cheating spouse will develop what I call hormone - induced amnesia. The surging hormones and passion they feel in their new relationship can cause some very skewed thinking.
I just hope when the "hormone induced amnesia" comes to an end he realizes what he gave up and lost. In the meantime, I am focusing on me and moving on with my life so that hopefully if/when the day does ever come that he realizes he made a mistake both my head and heart will not want anything to do with him.
I reserved my moving truck today and will be moving out of our home on Tuesday.
M-34, H-37, No Kids Married 4yr, Together 6yr Discovered EA 7/24/10 Separated 8/6/10 Filed 8/16/10 H Moved home and Piecing 9/20/10 H returns to OW 12/10 EA was really PA I file 12/29/10 I move out 12/30/10