I just started "After the Affair" and so far I don't like it at all... probably because it's describing the betrayed spouse in such a pitiful state (lack of self esteem, etc.). That was an accurate description of me back in late 2007, early 2008, but I've come along way from those days, thankfully.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence