I just started "After the Affair" and so far I don't like it at all... probably because it's describing the betrayed spouse in such a pitiful state (lack of self esteem, etc.). That was an accurate description of me back in late 2007, early 2008, but I've come along way from those days, thankfully.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence