WAW The cold & cruel truth 2

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I divorced in 1994, I came here in 2001 post divorce, 2 relationships later. I DB'd that guy, got him back but ended it myself. Then I met someone shortly later, and we've been together ever since. But with hiccups, and I DB'd that relationship--we're 9 years strong. We broke up for 4 months once. We will marry, but early on he didn't ever want to actually be married again, and now we have some economic barriers: he was laid off a few years ago, we have like two houses to sell, 6 kids between us, mostly over 18, we need to choose where to live, etc. We'd rather live someplace warmer, but his youngest is special needs. Our situation works real well for us right now, so we're not in any hurry.

So what I know for sure is divorce is incredibly hard. And the things you think you're ending by getting divorced very often carry into the other relationships. It's worth learning to change and learning to really do the real giving that build real love.

Our relationship has been very loving for years now. It doesn't mean neither one of us have faults, but we work through them with love.


This is why I usually post shorter posts. When I talk about myself I ramble.