i looked at the sitch like this: if h wanted to do anything to work on marriage, be friends, or just co parent together i do strongly believe he would have done something some little thing to change the situation.
some cases in point: i'm off for winter break, kids are with me every single day, every night they eat dinner, bathe, and sleep in their home, i will not budge on those things.
for the two weeks he did not make any requests to see them only for an hour during the week out of 19 days...he looked at me and smiled, saying, you mean i'm on vacation? it's just clear that he sees the children, wife, marraige a hinderance on his life. who can take a vacation from their children?
he didn't ask to see them for xmas, just sent a msg, tell the kids i said hi....it breaks my heart to type this and to live this. i feel so badly for my children, for giving them a father that just wants very little to no interaction with them.
even when he is supposed to wathc them, he doesn't, it's his mother... my daughter 3 keeps saying mommy makes me happy, daddy makes me cry daddy makes me sad.....
Me 40 H 30 D19 previous marriage, d3 and s10months H walked out nov 1, 2009 Seperated ever since filed for d nov 2010, served h 12-22-10