ATE, I'm with you. It isn't your job to get divorced. If she wants it, she should do it. There are no "steps" to save a marriage. If there were we'd all follow it and there wouldn't be any divorces. Just keep on getting better and you'll be fine.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
