Why do I care?

[sgctxok]

I came here to fight for my relationship because I came 2 relationships post-divorce. I could blame my divorce on my exH, but 2 relationships later I realized I also had to learn to do things differently. I wanted to be happy. I didn't want to have relationships that lasted a few years and fell apart, and then I had to do it all over again.


I think some people are more ok with detaching and moving on. They are ok with having more serial relationships in their lives, or ok with being alone. Or just don't really want to change anything within themselves.