I'm spending the holiday weekend home with my W this year, and am not traveling to my hometown to be with my siblings, relatives, and parents. I don't recall ever doing this before. If I went, my W would have been alone for most of the weekend, and we would have missed the cooking job.
I still haven't been proactive about physical contact with my W. It seems like the right time to move forward on this issue.
It seems to me our financial situation needs a plan and some structure. We don't have a savings plan, so are caught off-guard when unexpected expenses arise. I try to save a little each month, but my income is earmarked for bills. We also have too much debt. I'd like to meet with our financial planner in the new year.
Our two dances for the Januray competition are starting to look and feel good. I seem to be more excited about this than my W is. I think our dancing needs some structure, and goals, otherwise we're drifting. I've figured out that I can easily get my W to practice after an exercise class at our fitness center.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
