Sorry, mis-understood what you meant. My fear is under control. actually I'm much more scared by the prospect of reconciling than being alone. Why open up freshly healed wounds?

I guess what I mean is that I don't think most people would be here. When I talk to people (and I've been judicious with who I tell all the details) all but one gave me the "kick her to the curb" attitude. Some how that is just not me. Given the divorce rate it seems most people have no problem just giving up or taking off. Why is that not me?

Don't get me wrong, I'm happy that my DNA has been encoded to keep fighting, but I just don't think most people today are this way (present company excepted, obviously). Anyone have any psychological/sociological explanations for this?


M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011