WAW The cold & cruel truth 2

[MrBond]

The "fog" just describes the state of mind that the person is in. It's not a medical condition or a psychological issue.

First thing you've got to do is detach. Seriously detach. There's so much anger and resentment in you and brother I've been there. There's no "rational" reason why your W is doing what she's doing. It's purely emotional.

You need to realize that unless your kids are in physical danger, you can't do anything about them being exposed to whomever your W wants to. You don't have anything legal to stop that, so you have to accept it for what it is.

You DON'T know how lazy or careless she is with the kids anymore than she knows about you with them. That's mindreading and it'll only get you feeling worse.

So bottom line. What do you want to do? It's time to do something different.