I have another question. What does the WAS get from moving out? My H is right next door for example. Is it just being in his own space without me to tell him how to do things? He said at one point he was just tired of hearing me complain so much. Since he said that a few months before he moved out I stopped complaining to him. I don't know if he even noticed. He also said that nothing in the house was his. That is true but a lot of stuff was acquired after we got married so technically it wasn't mine either. Though I think he sees it that it was stuff I picked out so he had no say in it. He does seem to come over here almost daily but doesn't stay very long. I don't know if the house makes him uncomfortable or not. I just feel like if I knew some of his thinking on these things I could approach my interactions with him better.
