NFTP, I don't have the answer. I just want you let you know you are not alone. I have been struggling with this for over a year now. We are not divorced, however, wife moved away to another state two weeks ago. I just set up our Christmas tree and sit her thinking "Why do I care?"
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010
