wife preparing to leave me and kids

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The om had sent my W a No contact text almost a month ago took them a week and a half via cell to break that. OM being "committed" to his M. Or that's what he is telling his W so she sent my W a no contact email very specific. Very marriage builders format. That actually seemed to have opened a can of worms and they have had more cell contact since after I confronted her on a long phone call which he supposedly told her it was done no chance he hated her that was lasg week txt and calls went away they went to email figuring we couldn't see any of it. Now we know but my gut and the holiday is giving me mixed signals which makes me think we should watch for another week. Trying to get info from her sis tonight.