"In the Div Bust. Plan is exposing the affair ever reccomended. I was told it was covered but I cannot find where."

There's a time to "Act as if" everything's normal and a time to "Expose". Every sitch is different and timing is important.

Trust your instincts but not your emotions. That said, if your W has no fear of exposure, what's the question? The question is: "what action will get you closer to your goal versus further away??"

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."