Divorced in August-I'm a Mess

[missmyfriend]

MrLost, it is a tough situation you are in. If she was sincere before her hysterectomy (and she probably was) it could either be the change in hormones or just a natural? part of the roller coaster you are on.

No one can tell you what to do but if she needs space, it is probably best to give it to her. Sometimes showing unconditional love requires you to do the hard thing. Just make sure that you stay "even" with your emotions around her, i.e. don't get upset, be gentle at all times. Loving someone in the good times is easy, loving someone in the bad (really, really bad) times is extremely hard.

Love is patient, love is kind, love is not self seeking...