wife preparing to leave me and kids

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Just when I thought we had progress. OM W has email proof they are still meeting. She is going to print it we are going to confront them at the same time same day after xmas. Remind me again why not to expose to my family Om family and my W's family.
Reading the marriage builders site and they highly reccomend it to end the affair.
Just the other night my W was saying she wanted to tell everyone so why not.

I do not see this marriage surviving. As much as i planned on spending my dying days with her she continues to betray and lie i can't see it and she doesn't want it.

In the Div Bust. Plan is exposing the affair ever reccomended. I was told it was covered but I cannot find where.

Giving up on saving the M here. Unless confronting causes her some sort of revelation but she has already filed for D.

Advice Please