Can you stil be piecing and be doing 180's? Seems odd to find myself detaching somewhat after fighting so hard for this...
I'm not at the piecing stage, but one thing I know is that if I ever am, I'll stay somewhat detached. It seems like a common pattern that people become so connected and co-dependent that the monotony of married life snuffs out any/all of the spark. If detaching is what is required to keep those strong boundaries then it is your way of continuing to fight.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
