Thanks. I've been meaning to keep in touch with your sitch, but I've been so busy, and the need to get away from this site for a while that I lost track.
As long as the MC is helping you, go for it. I was hoping for my W to dive right in, but it doesn't seem to work that way. Getting a life helps and for me the easiest way was to go back to where my root are. I have to admit I'm dreaming/thinking about moving back to where she is, but if I ever do, it will be for me.
As for the Detente, my only advice is to keep things a little bit unpredictable. My W knows of all the events and changes in my life. She is interested, but I don't come right out and tell her things unless she asks.
Good luck and to everyone here, Merry Christmas.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
