I agree with Sandi. I don't think asking your H to dinner was very good advice. It is definitely pursueing and at this point that is the LAST thing you want to do. Continue to do LRT and focus on yourself. I know it is so much easier said than done.

I struggle with what to do everyday.

I wish you a Merry Christmas and try and enjoy the time with your family.

M-34, H-37, No Kids
Married 4yr, Together 6yr
Discovered EA 7/24/10
Separated 8/6/10
Filed 8/16/10
H Moved home and Piecing 9/20/10
H returns to OW 12/10
EA was really PA
I file 12/29/10
I move out 12/30/10