So we got through the Dad visit to the house 2 weeks ago. As suspected - he did criticize things in Ryan's room. Commented on his wood laminate floor. He is laying one in his house right now and let Ryan's nurse know that ours was not a good job. hmmmm.... He also made a few other comments despite the fact Ryan has a very large suite of rooms that are decorated nicely and well built. Sometimes I think he just likes to find something to talk about.
A couple of days ago he phoned me. I still find it so strange to have him phoning me after years of nasty calls followed by 4 years of NOTHING. Anyway - he asked if I was still ok with him visiting Ryan in his room for Christmas Eve to open gifts. I told him it was fine and that I thought it was nicer for both of them than opening in his car. He was cordial and even wished me a Merry Christmas. So - we continue to be civil and this is better for everyone concerned. Too bad it took us so long.
